Tuesday, January 30, 2007

How To Use NLP Seduction To Get More Girls!

By Brian S

Neuro-Linguistic Programming seduction, or NLP seduction as it is most often referred to is a new trend of techniques used to make you a total hit with the ladies, allowing you to become more confident, more dominant and teaching you to think like the opposite sex, in order to avoid their traps and defenses.

If that last part of the sentence above sounded like something from a tactical war training, well you’re not far from it. Because when dealing with the opposite sex, you actually partake in a “war” of gestures, thoughts, conditional and unconditional defenses and traps. If we’re to take the analogy one step forward, you could say that NLP Seduction is a weapon of mass destruction in this war theatre. NLP Seduction is so powerful that few get to learn to use it properly, but once you get to “Marine” status, you’re up for all the sweet combat loot you can get :).

NLP Seduction (and other fields of neuro-linguistic programming) is based on the fact that you can “program” your brain just like a computer, telling your unconscious to act the way you want it to act in specific situations. For example, with the help of NLP Seduction, you can train your mind not to blush when talking to a beautiful woman, or to be more confident in yourself when picking up someone of the opposite sex (and trust me, women have a 6th sense about our confidence..) and so forth. All this is achieved to the use of language, images, sounds and other sensory inputs.

One thing that NLP Seduction teaches us is that it’s quite important that you create a special rapport with someone you meet from the very first seconds. That’s why at this point, your confidence needs to be skyhigh and you need to let the opposite sex know you’re confident because you have something that others don’t (even if looks are not your forte). How to achieve this? By using NLP Seduction to control your language (both tone and what you say), gestures, stance and so much more.

Since NLP Seduction is such a complex technique, I took the freedom to make some research and find something that could clear up some (if not all) of your questions about it.


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Friday, January 26, 2007

Applying Neuro - Linguistic Method in Creative Writing

By Daniel Hunt

One of the most effective methods to improve writing skills and make the chain of thoughts coherent is Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). This strategy is developed for young people and grown-ups to establish clearer outlines and place a general idea of the story in a fluent way. The richness of the language is determined by lexical unit usage in the text and various methods of depiction of an idea. The founder of this method is Robert Dilts that developed the strategy making an observation of professional writers working. Applying this method, a person gathers all the ideas into a coherent scheme and gives a full picture of the subject. This article is very useful for individuals that want to improve their writing skills.

The aim of the programming is the following: To learn to get focused on one thing; Figure out the sense that has the best perception of material; placing keywords at the end of the sentence help the writer to keep to the chain of events that need depiction. Examine your assignment title carefully and decide upon the style you are going to use to write it. Take into account the type of an assignment you were given; is it a narration, or fiction or recollection of real events etc. Do not forget about the intended reader and how is he going to percept everything you want to express. Before actually stating to put your thoughts onto paper, make a brief plan of what you are going to use; one after another. If everything is ready and you want to get started, look through the following methods and decide which is better.

1. Choose one of the connection words you know and can apply and place it in your mind in the end of every sentence to ease yourself a task to make a verbal bridge between ideas. 2. If your vocabulary is rich you can interchange some of the words so your composition looks well designed and has a majority of proper terms. 3. Instead of interchange, you can look for good synonyms to linking words and make your speech brighter. There are a lot of sensory verbs that are commonly used in the texts, and can be interchanged as well as altered. Applying this method you have to take into account the narrator’s position, connection and sensory verb. Place the narrator’s position and sensory verb at the beginning while the position of connection may appear occasional. This method helps to generate various ideas and thoughts related, contributes to the general outlook. 4. After you have become an expert in using different methods mentioned above, you can experiment and mix all these points and create your own style to make your work a sample for everyone to follow. This explanation of the method can be a bit complicated, but if you use it and try to improve, you will be a winner.

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Sunday, January 21, 2007

Use NLP for Smoking Cessation

By: Steve Hill
NLP stands for NeuroLinguistic Psychology, and many people are finding as one of the more beneficial stop smoking programs. Typically, this is one part of a bigger overall package that may include several quit smoking products and methods. While it’s evident that NLP does work on some who are looking for help to stop smoking, it’s also apparent that no stop smoking hypnotherapy will work unless several factors are present.

Arguably, the most important factor is a personal desire to quit smoking cigarettes. If the smoker is looking for stop smoking aids because a spouse is constantly nagging about the smell of smoke, it’s unlikely that any stop smoking help is going to work. Quitting smoking has to be the smoker’s desire. Look at some examples between an internal and external drive.

If the smoker is fully aware of the health risks of smoking, he or she may say it’s time to quit. An internal reason to seek quit smoking help is that you (as a smoker) know you’re doing harm to your body, and to your family and friends who deal with your second-hand smoke. This is an internal prompt to quit cigarette smoking. In this case, the desire is real and quit smoking hypnosis or NLP may very well be just the boost you need to successfully quit.
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Wednesday, January 17, 2007

THE MAGIC CARPET

By Julia Middleton
(Julia Middleton is a business journalist and marketing copywriter specialising in IT and telecomms. See website www.bizzwords.co.uk or contact julia@bizzwords.co.uk.
‘Think back’ he said. ‘Pick one occasion)


When you were truly happy, your best self;

Then draw on it when life conspires to get you down.



Make that time a living picture,

Enlarge it, shrink it down, play with it

In black and white, in colour, soft, then bright and sharp.



Remember every sound and smell and taste,

The air touching your skin, how you felt.

And save it. Bottle the whole experience -



A hand on the shoulder could do it.’

Slowly I touched the carpet with my foot.

Curled my toes and thought of a moment in a summer barn.



Dancing in a circle on a rug

Turkish and threadbare, turquoise, rust and gold,

I spin around, while in the background guests weave patterns.



The party’s flying on its own momentum,

I can do anything, love everybody,

Need no-one. This is the moment to bottle and to breathe.



And so I tested it. Sitting forward

On the office chair I pushed down hard

With my bare foot, closed my eyes and let it all flood back.



It wasn’t fancy or an empty wish.

Blazing exhilaration lifted me -

I felt the rush as time wound back; I danced once more,



It worked beyond my expectations. At first

I didn’t dare to rub the lamp again -

The genie must decide the moment when he calls -



But then I took control. The rug is there

For flying. When confidence is low

I can enlist that magic source of power to win peace.


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Friday, January 5, 2007

NLP: Rapport

By Roger Ellerton

I was particularly looking forward to attending the above seminar having heard a lot about John, being a co-founder of NLP and yet having no particular expectations of what to expect.

Curiously enough while the reality surprised me - it was exactly like I would have expected had I thought about it. In fact I could sum it up by saying the course gave some really good quality, precise, exceptionally well delivered NLP training and practice - a useful refinement, without anything particularly new. The exception being some useful distinctions and some stories about Erickson, Bandler and Gilligan that I hadn't heard before.

Carmen didn't really work for me. In the end I found walking down some really attractive London streets, appreciating the buildings, listening to the muted weekend sounds and feeling the warmth of the spring sunshine more appealing - however many appeared to enjoy her sessions.

In summary the course gave:

Some useful distinctions in using NLP
Good techniques to practice/use
A model of excellent NLP training
A chance to talk to John himself

Some useful distinctions in using NLP

The key point I remember was John's view of not setting specific conscious outcomes in personal change work. The idea is that the unconscious is much better at this, and therefore the emphasis is on providing additional resources to help the unconscious choose the best outcome*. (*Note you need to set outcomes in business work!!)

In 'true' NLP modelling, the modeller takes on board the new skill set without consciously working out what he/she should be doing - Too much conscious thinking will create filters which interfere with the process. The test and initial feedback loop is that the modeller carry out the new skill on a third party.

Good NLP techniques

We covered 'new code' NLP when I took my own practitioner course several years ago, however it was only after this course that I understood some of their strength and have included them in some of my own trainings. Two examples include 'stalking' and 'physiological walking'.

These are just two examples are what I've taken on board and use, what follows is what I remember and use - it may be different to what was actually demonstrated:

Stalking

For use when a client slowly 'sinks' into a less than useful state without noticing it. By the time he's noticed it its hard to get out.

Practitioner ask client to develop a 'resource' or 'sanctuary' state and anchor it to a specific location on the floor. Practitioner asks the client to take a step to a different position.

Practitioner asks the client to imagine the 'less than useful state' in a position on the floor away from the sanctuary state. He is asked to notice what he sees and hears in that state. (Without actually walking over to that position).

Practitioner asks the client to walk towards the 'less than useful' state as if he was stalking it. As soon as he starts to be influenced in any way by that state he is to rush back to the 'sanctuary state'. Repeat two more times. (ie he will not actually reach the negative state.)

In the future the client is likely to notice the approach of the 'less than useful state' and can choose to avoid it.

Physiological walking

For use when a client wants more resources in any situation.

Practitioner asks client to see and hear himself in the situation he wants more resource in, in a location a few feet away. He is then asked to come up with 3 additional states to help him.

Practitioner asks client to walk and coaches client to release any tension and move his physiology to achieve the 3 additional states. Walking as many times across the room as needed. NB pay particular attention to breathing.

Practitioner asks client to look at the situation he needs more resource and notice what he sees and hears differently.

In the future the client is likely to find he has more resources in the original situation and can use this technique himself in many other situations.

NB in both techniques the practitioners main role is to be aware of the clients physiology and state and coach as required.

Model of excellent NLP training

John has obviously learnt a lot about NLP training over the last 30 years and it shows. I was taken by the similarity to Richard rather than the difference. In the way he used anchoring, voice tone and stories, and the way he worked with the audience.

The experience was a pleasure.

A chance to talk to John himself

John was extremely approachable and eager to answer individual questions in breaks and coffee time. In fact an ideal model for anyone wanting to socialise in business gatherings.



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